The door in my wardrobe*

*the door not actually being there was a disappointment - but at least I was allowed to play with the clothes

//// Five guilty pleasures

Posted on | November 1, 2009 | 9 Comments

Lovely Lily from UnoCosa’s Scrapbook sent me the Divine Award couple of days ago… …and although I have thought that I’ll keep this blog pretty free of personal stuff I could not resist to answer to this. It might be that I’m bit blinded by the fancy name of the award!

Ok, I should list five guilty pleasures of mine. This is not the easiest task, because I try to live relatively guilt free life — I mean what’s the point of pleasure if you spend a lot of time afterward regretting. But because I’m not perfect =)…

5) Beer, cookies and really good fresh bread. I have some problems with grains and really can’t eat them in large amounts. But an occasional cold beer, warm chocolate chip cookie from my local coffee shop, or a small loaf of oven fresh bread with butter melting on top just… …gets me sometimes.

4) Computer games — oh yes I have used hours and hours with these, starting with Aquarius computer in 1985, moving to Amiga, PC, we also had Xbox for a while. My genres are light strategy (Civilization, anyone?) and single player adventure/role playing games (from System Shock to Fallout trilogy). Just don’t even dare to try multiplayer RPG:s, well, maybe when I retire (if I ever do) I will let go… I enjoy playing and feel that it is a great way to get rid of for example work related issues that stick to my head sometimes too tight, but on the other hand I feel that it is total waste of time — plus I easily mess my circadian rhythm when playing…

3) Good coffee. We have a capricious but good Italian espresso machine at home — and my husband is quite seasoned barista these days, he makes great coffee. The coffee shop on the ground floor of our house is also very good. I enjoy the sense waking aromas of fresh ground espresso beans and a good hot cup of coffee is absolutely on top of my everyday pleasures list. But I really have some sleeping disorder thing going on — and can’t help but think that the daily dose of potent stimulant might not be that good for me.

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2) I really can steal a bullet point from Lily here: a cigarette, a drink and good conversation over the random reflections in life .… I am just a very simply being who gets pleased easily with very small things!!! Except that I don’t smoke. If there is any guilt involved to this it has something to do with the amount of wine I’m able to consume… …well, I’m relatively responsible with this but a bottle of wine is common sight in our dinner table and I sure enjoy it as a part of the social activity, too.

1) Mmm-hmm… …the clothes. I have lots of them and I know that they will keep coming. Dressing up is quite a pleasure for me but I can’t deny that there is also a certain amount of guilt involved. I like my life to be relatively clutter free, so I just can’t justify excessive amount of shopping — plus living here is quite expensive so every square meter used to clothes storage really counts. I don’t want to convert our apartment to a giant wardrobe, and I’m afraid that we already are on a verge of that.

I also see that I’m coming more and more critic about consuming. I think that the right price for an item is such that it can be produced ethically in humanitarian and ecological measurements. But there is no way for a consumer really know the backgrounds of these issues in most cases. Oh yes, those single aspects of ethical production are eagerly used as marketing slogans these days, but I have strong doubts if those “organic cotton” or “environmentally friendly” labels tell the whole truth about mass produced items.

So I try to choose more and more from small producers and artisans, products those lifeline can be traced entirely (really difficult and rarely applicable), buy second hand stuff and do things by myself. Plus I really need to wean myself from too cheap stuff. I have enough basics, enough everyday stuff and if I use my spare money for cheap clothes we are going to drown to them sooner or later. The right justification for a new garment to enter my wardrobe is that I absolutely, deeply love it — and that it is really special enough. And I’m afraid that these conditions are not fulfilled with cheap mass produced stuff.

I think that i might pass this award for some fellow Finnish bloggers, I really haven’t seen it circulating around here too much. So it goes to stellagee, sugar kane, Jalouse, Maria and Julia — don’t feel any pressure about this, just wanted to mention you lovely ladies!

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Discussion

  1. Maria
    November 1st, 2009 @ 8:19 pm

    Cool! ^^ I’ll get on with it as soon as I decide which guilty pleasures I want to share :P P Allthough I agree, a guilty free life is preferred, but hey, who wouldn’t slip every now and then… :)

  2. Steff
    November 2nd, 2009 @ 7:48 am

    Sounds like we’re in the same boat on the clothes. I cleaned out my closet in the spring of all the pieces I no longer wear, but I swear I’ve replaced them two-fold. And I thought starting a fashion blog would curb my want to buy those special things that I truly love, but I do think my buying has spiked a bit. 90% of what I buy is handmade right from the designer, but I still feel guilty for spending so much money and filling our one room apartment to capacity. Especially since we have no hope of moving to a larger home for at least 3 – 4 years. Sigh.

    Congrats on the blog award! In case I haven’t said it before, you’re my favorite.

  3. stellagee
    November 2nd, 2009 @ 3:15 pm

    thanks for the award! i’ll try to create my list asap, although i must admit that i do live a rather guilt-free life meself, as well.

  4. sugar kane
    November 2nd, 2009 @ 10:35 pm

    Thanks for the challenge! Seems like we share a taste in pleasures, as well…

  5. Kamicha
    November 4th, 2009 @ 7:30 pm

    Steff: I hear you, I sort of can feel the pressure, too. But I just have to remind myself that only fraction of my wardrobe has been on my images here. And thanks!

    Maria, sugar kane, stellagee; youre welcome!

  6. UnoCosa
    November 7th, 2009 @ 12:36 am

    Finnnnnally, i got around to enjoy this post!!! thank you so much for sharing them — and how i agree with the concept of living a guilty free life .… why enjoyed if have to suffer later .… i love love the photography of the coffee — so delicious and i can just smell it! about being responsible consumer, this is just a topic in its own to be explored .… you just inspired me to do a post about it someday soon!!!

    again, truly a wonderful thought out post — i am sharing this on FB, xx

  7. Kamicha
    November 10th, 2009 @ 12:49 am

    Lily, this was heaps of fun, thanks for the challenge!

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  9. Jalouse
    November 26th, 2009 @ 12:57 pm

    I think it could be time for me to list my guilty pleasures as well, just before christmas and santa… But these doesn´t count whilst getting presents, do they?! :)

    So this late bird will get on to this…

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